Sir Sean Connery was voted the sexiest man of the year in 1989, and the sexiest man of the century in 1999. When he was 59 women, voted him sexier than any other man on the planet, followed by being voted as the sexiest man of the century at 69.
We're talking about male Attractiveness, and sex appeal and how it affects you as a person.
Attractiveness is more than just your appearance. It's is what you exuberate from within, like your style, confidence, and speech. Most of which is what you acquired as you walk through life.
Decorating the shell is just a significant part of being Attractive; your looks are the first thing people notice. Based on observation, research and practice, we share some tips on maintaining the shell, your body.
The Necessity
Findings reveal that, usually around thirty-nine, men start to make a mental crossover, to the other side of the fence, while, physically well most make an overstatement of themselves. These men crouch over clad carelessly, tuned to a relatively replica of the statement "how does it matter now, who's going to notice".
Most men, with a potential to look extraordinarily desirable, just kind of give up on account of a number. Well, Attractiveness is not just about attracting women. It's also about appearing strong and masculine so that one can attract business partners and clients equally.
When people see you, you want them to be attracted to you on all levels. Multiple studies have shown that attractive people are hired sooner, promoted faster, and earn as much as 3 to 4% more than their less-attractive counterparts without debating the morality or fairness. When you're perceived as an attractive, individual, you're seen as more open and approachable. Exposing you to more people, including potential clients, business partners, and the fairer sex.
Let's try and understand what these men do, stand out as well dressed, and attract attractive individuals.
Look Presentable
The first step is to figure out how to look presentable, so that when you walk into an office, a bar, a mall or any type of establishment the single women there should look at you and quickly determine: "Hey, this guy is on the market. He looks interesting."
You impediment actually plays in your favour here, people, including women, are less concerned about the age that will turn them off, It's the appearance.
Dress to look Attractive
The most misunderstood statement. "Dress to look attractive" and not young or boyish. So Do away with the boyish casual sports jacket. Wearing them no way can make your look younger or presentable in any way. Instead, it's going to make you look odd or mendacious.
Dress to look confident, attractive and approachable, and that's the first thing anyone, including women, will notice about you.
However, even if you are a sports jacket person, keep the ones that are fancy and not flashy. Wear up you're sports jackets, with casual button-up shirts, to show that you care about yourself and that you haven't given up on life.
Pick a few essential pieces to feature in your wardrobe. Invest in a cosy knit jumper and a turtleneck sweater, which you can layer up over crisp shirts, T-shirts and polos. Then, wear them with a quality pair of slim or straight fit jeans or a pair of chinos.
Of course, you should embrace colour at any age, but try to stick to mostly neutral hues if you can. You can then brighten up the whole attire with one or two statement accessories like a bright tie or even a bold jumper.
Try to keep large logos and bold slogans to a minimum.
Tuck your shirt inside
Unless specifically tailored, seamlessly tuck in your short or T-shirt, this has the potential to emphasise your style. It shows that you put meticulous efforts in your appearance. If you want to add absolute formal in your outfit and appeal like a gentleman, this will become your first ideal. Tucking t-shirt has become a subtle manner nowadays. If you wear a t-shirt tucked it in with chinos, It will flatter with your appeal and instantly elevate your style.
Pants fitted at butts.
Women find this appealing in men. Pants fitted at butts is an easy way to emphasise your style. It's also crucial as it is a sign of well-fitted pants. If your pants are loose, buy quality belts and use it so that your pants fit well at your waist, and don't look like Saggy pants. Saggy pants are a mistake guys are still making, they can destroy your style and make you look trashy.
Find the perfect pair of shoes.
"When you get older, comfort is everything, but try to stay away from trainers and overly sporty shoes. Instead, opt for smarter pairs like leather brogues, loafers and deck shoes. For Winter, choose classic boot styles shoes, like Chelsea and desert boots, will keep your feet warm and dry, and they've got a nice mature style that will work well with your winter outfits. You should also try to go for shoes with rubber soles, as these will give you more comfort, grip and support than leather soles, without sacrificing on style."
Accessorise in the right Way
"No ensemble is complete without an accessory or two, and turning older doesn't mean you can't add a dash of colour or personality to your wardrobe.
Plain silver cufflinks and black socks can look great, but why not go for something bolder? opt for colourful pieces that reflect an element of your personality, like your favourite hobby, to add a subtle nod to your fun side.
Glasses, men by now usually develop presbyopia. They get two things wrong, caring a cheap reading glasses or are tempted to keep them simple and opt for a rimless pair, but these could actually make you look clumsy or older. A great pair of Glasses can add so much of style statement. Instead, get progressive with transition eyewear with soft, rounded edges and thick frames in a warm colour, like black or brown. Tortoiseshell glasses are ideal for any age. The pattern is very established and timeless. Making these frames perfect for anyone over, and the colour can pretty much be worn with anything.
Jewellery, big, extravagant pieces are best avoided. Instead, go for a classic watch with a leather strap and small, minimalist accessories, such as a simple ring or leather bracelet."
Groom, Groom and Groom
The most crucial aspect of your appearance and in many cesses most compromised, you need to pay careful attention to grooming. While this subject warrants an article by itself, listed below are pointers for now, for you to consider and attended in the most momentous way possible.
- Well-trimmed Beards, Groomed Stubble and Moustaches
- Defined, and trimmed eyebrows.
- Trimmed Nostril hair that is not protruding out.
- Ear Hair trimmed as well
- Remove Hair from your Neck
- Manicure your hands and feed regularly. Take care immediately when your nail show signs of getting yellow, brittle, or fungus-infected nails, visit a dermatologist if you have too.
Men tend to sprout hair from everywhere as they grow older. You have to make sure you have impeccable grooming habits.
Dyeing and Losing hair
Many men start to get grey at this age, but this need not be a problem; there's nothing wrong with dying your hair. However, once you're committed to this, you have to maintain a regular schedule of dying your hair to keep it from looking odd, which will happen when your natural hair colour starts growing back in and displacing the coloured hair. I hope not to mention, please avoid the brick colour dye unless you're are under a ceremonious oath.
I am bald and have been shaving my head for now over a decade, and support it with a Van Dyke or an Anchor beard changing from one to the other. I have never been mocked at, not even behind my back. On the contrary, I gathered a few compliments here and there.
I guess "Bald is the new black", search and you shall find over fifty Hollywood superstars who are bald. Including Sir Sean Connery, Vin Diesel, Jack Nicholson, Jason Statham, Anthony Hopkins and the list goes on.
Take Care of Your Body
Nothing makes a man look older than if he's carrying on a lot of extra weight, especially in the face and the belly region.
If you start getting a double chin, you need to start taking care of your body now. Work on your body in parts, referentially in various routines. Understand like no two individuals are the same; thus, it is not necessarily what has worked for others shall work for you, get your best diet and workout routine, and stick to it. Once you are in a considerable desired shape, you could add some weight training as well, to show off a bicep or a well-rounded shoulder, but that a desirable and not a must.
You have a menu of information and choices out there, pick to your taste: However, you don't have an option to avoid, if you want to look Attractive.
- join a gym
- join a specific program
- get a trainer
- work with a dietitian
Take care of your teeth.
Like many other things, time takes its toll on your teeth, and you could find your teeth yellowing or even have some of your teeth fall out. Not having healthy teeth is something that is a significant negative factor in looking Attractive.
If you used to smoke or have just neglected your teeth in the past, you're probably going to want to look at something like getting your teeth whitened, visit a dentist.
There are ways of upgrading your teeth that will go a long way towards making you look more attractive, visit you, dentist.
Take Care of Your Skin
If you're already in your 50s or 60s, and you've neglected your skin in the past, this one will be a bit tough.
You'll have to consider lotions and moisturising products that have ingredients to improve your skin tone. There are ingredients in some of the more expensive and exclusive skincare products that will help you improve your skin condition.
If you're in your 30s or 40s, you have a bit more leeway, but you should immediately start paying attention to cleaning your skin.
A grooming routine is essential here; you need to learn how to clean, exfoliate and moisturise your face and body.
Men who care about their skin in their 30s and 40s will find themselves in much better condition when they get to their 50s and 60s, and won't have any problems.
Have Confidence
One of the great things about getting older is that you've been through life and you've become a lot more confident, and this is the excellent thing. You've started to break away from the mainstream, and you have begun to realise this is your one shot in life. Make sure you capitalise on this confidence. Know that you're going to have a great time and go live your life the way you want to and stop worrying about others' opinions.
I certainly hope these tips are useful. The important thing now is to get out there and act on this advice that you find helpful.
The Whopper
Never Ever Buy These Cheap.
Listed below are the five items, for which you should never compromise quality for price:
Eyeglasses:
It would help if you got a good sturdy pair of eyeglasses that can be worn every day and handle the wear and tear and still last long. And good quality comes at a price. Go for the best possible quality available in your budget.
Sunglasses:
Protect your eyes from the harmful UV rays from the sun and the dust and pollution. Pick a strong pair, that adequately covers your eyes and if necessary, get prescription sunglasses.
Winter Jacket/Windcheater/Raincoat/Trench coat:
The Cloth, Cuts, style and the fall all matter in looking attractive and if the quality is not good, you may get a cold, cough or run a temperature.
Suit:
Most commonly used and a garment that needs precision at every point to look like a well-tailored suit. The length to long and you look like a hag, and to short, you look like a tramp.
Sleeves just right to give a glimpse of your shirt. The perfect Suite is a work of art. Buy a good one.
Shoes:
People often make the grave mistake of treating this lightly. Majority of the studies say that shoes are the first thing that a person notices in someone he meets and the subconscious mind creates an impression of the person from the shoe he wears. Also, shoes protect your feet. Bad shoes can cause a lot of posture and balance-related problems. Thus, buying good quality shoes, sandals, and flip flops are an investment for your safety.
